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Sharon Lennox posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 5, 2024
Sending my love to your family. Words cannot take away your pain but know you are in my thoughts and prayers
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Gary Bertram posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 29, 2024
My first best friend, I don’t know why things like this happen. I’ll never understand it.
I always looked up to you, and admired the person you were, and your carefree spirit. I have too many memories to start listing them here, but vacations and holidays were always my favorite.
I was saddened when you moved all the way to Virginia. I felt like our relationship took a hit, and I thought I wouldn’t be a part of your, or the girls’, lives as much. This just made the time we spent together much more valuable. You made a good life for yourself, made a lot of friends, and raised the girls right.
I can’t believe it’s over. I’ll never see you again. I’m glad I got to come see you and say goodbye. I’m glad you got to meet Oliver, and experience all that he is. I will make sure him and Harper never forget you.
You will be missed dearly
Love, Funk
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Monday, October 28, 2024
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Bethany Bertram uploaded photo(s)
Monday, October 28, 2024
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Rebecca Schwer uploaded photo(s)
Monday, October 28, 2024
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Bex Schwer posted a condolence
Monday, October 28, 2024
last week, i lost a giant piece of myself, one i don’t think ill ever get back. my mom was my best friend, she meant the absolute world to me and then some. those who knew melissa knew her as one of the kindest and most caring souls, she was beyond smart and even had a sense of humor to match that i adored more than anything. she was a lover of all things one direction, beach, coffee, and teaching- she loved her students, her babies, just as much as she loved my sister and i. and she was a hater of oxford commas, bananas, cold fruit, and intolerant people.
i knew her as mom (or my homie spomie)- a warrior, a badass, someone i aspire to be like. she had been fighting cancer for almost a decade, though you could hardly tell when you looked at her. she thought she lost her battle, but i think she came out victorious, and i hope she knows that now that she’s at peace. my heart has shattered into millions of pieces, there’s still so much i want to say to her, so much i still want her here for. i’m always going to need my mom, no matter how much time passes, or how old i get. above all, im going to miss her smile, her contagious laugh, calling her on my walks around campus or back to my apartment after class, surprising her on weekends, going to the ends of the earth for concerts, dance parties in the kitchen, playing hidden object games as detective schmom, or playing wizard101. i’m going to miss having her here with me to joke with and hug. what i wouldn’t give for just one more hug.
mom, i will always be your schmooey, nothing in the world can change that. i am so proud to have been able to call you my mom, and beyond lucky to have had 21 years with you. i’ll take you to so many beaches and new places, just like we always talked about doing. my babies will know who their honey was, and you will be with me for every step i take in life. i love you more than words, so much my chest hurts. you were so beautiful and i couldn’t be happier to be your carbon copy. i love you mom, so damn much.
towards the end, she’d talk about her private sailboat, coming to take her to her private island. public to everyone except her aunt april apparently. despite never having been on a boat, let alone a sailboat, she wanted to get on it more than anything. i hope she’s far away from everything that could hurt her, sipping on a fishbowl margarita and listening to her favorite music. hopefully she has a pair of water shoes, she hated stepping on mysterious slimy things in the ocean. she always loved the beach and the water, so it’s only fair that she got her own private island.
in honor of this aspect of her life, i wanted to read a short poem that i found:
My mother seems so far away from me
On that beautiful white shore across the sea.
Yet I remember love's soft glow upon her face
And the feel of her touch and tender embrace.
When I am weary from the burdens I've borne,
And the path is unclear and I feel so forlorn,
I remember her loving support was always near
And her advice made the path ahead seem clear.
When I feel there is no one who seems to care,
Or when the heartache seems too hard to bear,
I remember how she always stood by my side
And would tenderly wipe away the tears I cried.
When there are moments of great joy and pride
And I wish my Mother was standing at my side,
I remember she saw more than I thought I could be,
And know I owe my triumphs to her belief in me.
When I reminisce about the things she used to say
And I miss her and think she is so far away,
I remember what she gave lives on through me,
And one day I'll see her on the shore across the sea.
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Kim Keane posted a condolence
Friday, October 25, 2024
Melissa and her family came to our small group many years ago when the girls were little. She loved her family and wanted the best for them always. I am very sad to hear of her loss. She will be sorely missed.
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Thursday, October 24, 2024
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I have a memory of seeing Melissa with her young twins walking through an indoor “trunk-or-treat” event at church one year. We eventually met through the women’s group, and our similarly-aged daughters participated in the same kids’ church activities.
I got the chance to know Melissa more when we were both going through major life transitions, and especially after I moved out of town. She graciously let me stay at her house whenever I came back into the area, which was about monthly. I cherish the honest conversations and the relaxing time we had during those visits, and the friendship I felt.
She modeled strength and grace when going through cancer treatment. I’m sure it weighed heavy on her but I can’t remember her complaining a lot about it. As with other things in life, she seemed to tackle it realistically and with some humor.
In 2017, we met up in North Carolina to go see two concerts with our daughters. It was very special to share that experience with her and see her in action as a fun, caring mom to Rebecca and Audrey.
I remember coming to town for a wedding and serendipitously seeing her girls at the mall. They directed me to Barnes and Noble where I found Melissa sitting at a table. I will never forget her look of joy and surprise as I rounded the corner. I felt happy to be able to introduce her to the special person in my life, and him to her.
In December of 2020, she texted that she was going to get her Master’s degree and had gotten hired as a teacher. She said she was finally at a good place in her life. I'm so glad she got there, but it was definitely too short of a time.
Melissa was a caring, fun, and wise person. Being mom to Rebecca and Audrey was THE most important thing to her. She also greatly cherished her family relationships, including being an aunt. I feel very fortunate to have known her. Her life and light have created a ripple effect in the world and she will truly be missed.
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Bex Schwer uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 23, 2024
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Bex uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 23, 2024
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Wednesday, October 23, 2024
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Dearest Melissa,
The day you were born I became an aunt for the first time. I have loved being your aunt, and have so many wonderful memories and photos of our times together. I cherish the day I married Uncle John, and you were one of my bridesmaids, and I especially cherish our last dinner together when you came to NY in July.
Now, you are an angel in heaven, and there are so many people whose hearts are breaking. My heart goes out to your mom and dad, your brother Gary, and especially to your daughters, Rebecca and Audrey. You know how much I believe in the spirit world, and the signs they send us, so please send us some signs, so we'll know you're still with us.
With all my love, Auntie Re
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Bex Schwer uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 23, 2024
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Last week, I lost a giant piece of myself, one I don’t think I'll ever get back. My mom was my best friend, she meant the absolute world to me and then some. Those who knew melissa knew her as one of the kindest and most caring souls, she was beyond smart and even had a sense of humor to match that I adored more than anything. She was a lover of all things one direction, beach, coffee, and teaching- she loved her students, her babies, just as much as she loved my sister and I. And she was a hater of oxford commas, bananas, cold fruit, and intolerant people.
I knew her as mom (or my homie spomie)- a warrior, a badass, someone I aspire to be like. She had been fighting cancer for almost a decade, though you could hardly tell when you looked at her. She thought she lost her battle, but I think she came out victorious, and I hope she knows that now that she’s at peace. My heart has shattered into millions of pieces, there’s still so much I want to say to her, so much I still want her here for. I'm always going to need my mom, no matter how much time passes, or how old I get. Above all, I'm going to miss her smile, her contagious laugh, calling her on my walks around campus or back to my apartment after class, surprising her on weekends, going to the ends of the earth for concerts, dance parties in the kitchen, playing hidden object games as detective schmom, or playing wizard101. I'm going to miss having her here with me to joke with and hug. What i wouldn’t give for just one more hug.
Mom, I will always be your schmooey, nothing in the world can change that. I am so proud to have been able to call you my mom, and beyond lucky to have had 21 years with you. I'll take you to so many beaches and new places, just like we always talked about doing. My babies will know who their honey was, and you will be with me for every step i take in life. I love you more than words, so much my chest hurts. you were so beautiful and I couldn’t be happier to be your carbon copy. I love you mom, so damn much.
Towards the end, she’d talk about her private sailboat, coming to take her to her private island. Public to everyone except her aunt April apparently. Despite never having been on a boat, let alone a sailboat, she wanted to get on it more than anything. I hope she’s far away from everything that could hurt her, sipping on a fishbowl margarita and listening to her favorite music. Hopefully she has a pair of water shoes, she hated stepping on mysterious slimy things in the ocean. She always loved the beach and the water, so it’s only fair that she got her own private island.
In honor of this aspect of her life, I wanted to read a short poem that I found:
My mother seems so far away from me<br>On that beautiful white shore across the sea.<br>Yet I remember love's soft glow upon her face<br>And the feel of her touch and tender embrace.
When I am weary from the burdens I've borne,<br>And the path is unclear and I feel so forlorn,<br>I remember her loving support was always near<br>And her advice made the path ahead seem clear.
When I feel there is no one who seems to care,<br>Or when the heartache seems too hard to bear,<br>I remember how she always stood by my side<br>And would tenderly wipe away the tears I cried.
When there are moments of great joy and pride<br>And I wish my Mother was standing at my side,<br>I remember she saw more than I thought I could be,<br>And know I owe my triumphs to her belief in me.
When I reminisce about the things she used to say<br>And I miss her and think she is so far away,<br>I remember what she gave lives on through me,<br>And one day I'll see her on the shore across the sea.
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Gary Bertram uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 23, 2024
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Dot Berttam posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 22, 2024
My Sweet Melissa
One of the greatest days of my life was the day you were born. You made me a Mom for the very first time. It was wonderful loving you.
Watching you become a Mom of those beautiful twins girls Rebecca and Audrey was what love is all about. They were the reason you kept going after you were diagnosed with breast cancer. You were the example of what a perfect Mom is. The bond the three of you shared was so incredible to watch. No one or anything could shake that bond.
Rebecca and Audrey knew that they were so loved by you.
God truly blessed me with the gift of you. You might not have had a long life but it wás filled with so many fun loving adventures with your girls. I will love you and miss you so much but know your girls are loved and will be well taken care of. You raised two truly amazing young ladies. I love you my sweet baby girl.
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Tuesday, October 22, 2024
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Maureen Amiryar uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, October 22, 2024
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Melissa~~Meeting you at the start of our college experience was life changing. You were an instant friend full of laughter, strength and confidence. You helped me figure out life just by being you. When you were diagnosed, I saw that strength and bravery even more. You always had that fight in your voice even during hard times. You are the best mother I have ever met and always had your primary focus on your amazing girls. One of the last texts you sent me was to please take care of your babies and I won’t let you down. I will always be there for them when they need me. Love you my sweet friend.
Love , Reener
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Tuesday, October 22, 2024
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Roxanne Woodruff posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 22, 2024
Melissa was in my first class at Woodside. I will always remember her beautiful smile. Always a part of me, Melissa!
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Tuesday, October 22, 2024
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Hi Dot, I know Mellisa’s mom and we often talked about what a wonderful daughter Mellisa was and how much she loved her. We were praying and imploring to St Rita for Melissa’s healing. However Gods plan for us is the best although it hurts to say goodbye to our loved ones. Dot please be consoled that you had Mellisa as a gift from God who brought u so much joy and know that your friends and family will continue to pray for you, your family and for the eternal repose of Melissa’s soul. Please remember you have her as your special angel. Expressing our deepest sympathy to you. Love, Efren and Marilou
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Tuesday, October 22, 2024
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Sue Imhof purchased flowers
Tuesday, October 22, 2024
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Sue Imhof planted a tree in memory of Melissa Schwer
Tuesday, October 22, 2024
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Tuesday, October 22, 2024
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Gary Bertram uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, October 22, 2024
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Kerri Garcia posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 22, 2024
No matter how difficult life got, Melissa always found a way to make you laugh. Her silly faces she would make, her infectious smile and contagious laugh would brighten even the darkest of days. It was a privilege to have known you and to be able to call you a friend. Rest easy now in God's arms. I will Love you always and think of you often.
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Tuesday, October 22, 2024
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Debbie Cooper posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 22, 2024
My heart is with you all. I pray you find peace and comfort in the life you all shared with Melissa
Love
Debbie Cooper & family
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Stacy Tarrh posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 22, 2024
Melissa will always be the woman with the big smile and the even bigger heart. She was always so encouraging to me and also willing to jump in and be involved in whatever was happening with the kids - hers and mine. It was a joy to know her and have her as my friend.
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Diana Lopes posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 22, 2024
I will always remember our sleepovers and your constant reminder that you were a month and 19 days older than me. You will be deeply missed but will live in our hearts forever.
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Lisa Birnie posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 22, 2024
Melissa, you will be missed so much! I have so many memories of our times together, swimming, car rides, snow storms, tattoos, movies, cooking, laughing and just plain having fun. I know you have beautiful wings and are hanging out with my Mom. I miss you already!
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Monday, October 21, 2024
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Ill love you forever & always Melissa! May your heart find peace forever, Lisa
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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of Melissa Schwer
Monday, October 21, 2024
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Ill love you forever & always Melissa! May your heart find peace forever, Lisa Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Monday, October 21, 2024
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Dear Dot, Gary, Gary Jr, Rebecca & Audrey. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sending our love to you all! Uncle Stu, Patrice, Meghan, Tommy, Emma
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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of Melissa Schwer
Monday, October 21, 2024
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Dear Dot & Gary, Gary & Bethany and girlsWe hope as time goes on you will find peace and happy memories. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Gary Bertram posted a condolence
Monday, October 21, 2024
My daughter was a bright light in my life-a source of joy, laughter and endless love. Her smile could light up a room, and her laughter was like music that filled the heart with happiness. She had a way of making everything feel better, brighter, and more hopeful. Her presence was a constant reminder of the beauty and goodness in the world, and that light will never fade from my heart. I will always cherish the memories of her as a child-the way her eyes sparkled with wonder, her contagious giggles, and boundless energy that filled our days with laughter and adventure. Whether it was playing in the park, reading bedtime stories, or cuddling on the couch, these moments are etched in my heart forever. I love you so so much sweetie, forever and ever.
A Memorial Tree was planted for Melissa Schwer
Monday, October 21, 2024
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Monday, October 21, 2024
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2:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Wednesday, October 23, 2024
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